9 tips to avoid conflict this Christmas
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Christmas can be a time of joy and celebration. Yet at the same time it can be a time of stress and tension. Don’t let that cross word escalate into a huge argument that spoils this season of good will.
Here are a few tips to help you smooth out any ruffled feathers this Christmas:
1. Get it out into the open – Rather than avoid conflict altogether make time to sit down calmly or go for a walk to discuss any frustrations that may be building. Do so in a calm, respectful way rather than letting the tension build up. Otherwise you may blurt out something in an angry, hurtful way that you later regret.
2. Stop being defensive – Rather than denying how you feel and avoiding the reality that your silence is creating a bad atmosphere. Make time to talk. Silent defensiveness only contributes to the problem. You may think it better to say nothing as a way of alleviating stress in the here and now, but silence is a very passive aggressive gesture and will only alienate your partner when they don’t feel listened to.
3. Avoid overgeneralising – When you have it out with the other person, avoid making sweeping generalisations. Don’t start sentences with “You always” or “You never”, as in “You always leave everything to me!” or “You never help me!” Can you really say, with your hand on your heart that this is the case on every occasion? Also, however tempting it may be, avoid bringing up past conflicts as this will just add fuel to the fire and stir up more negativity.
4. There is not always a “right” or a “wrong” – it’s not helpful to always assume that there is a right and a wrong way to look at things, and that your way is the right way. Don’t demand that the other person sees it your way or that just because they have a different opinion that they are wrong. Try to find a compromise if you can, or agree to disagree. After all, both points of view could be valid.
5. Stop mind-reading – in the CBT world we talk about “unhelpful thinking.” Instead of asking how the other person is thinking of feeling, people sometimes assume that they know what their partner is thinking and feeling based upon inaccurate interpretations of their actions. For example, just because somebody is late home, it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care enough to be on time. Remember, we all come from a unique perspective, so stop assuming and take time to ask, check out and really listen to the other person.
6. Don’t forget to listen – instead of taking time to attempt to understand your partner, stop interrupting, rolling your eyes and rehearsing what you are going to say next. Take time to stop and truly listen to their point of view. There will be plenty of time for you to talk. Do not underestimate the power of really listening and really trying to empathise. Such listening skills are really all about respecting the other person.
7. Stop playing the blame game – instead of simply criticising and blaming the other person for the situation. Be prepared to back down, say sorry and acknowledge that you might not be right. You may think that this weakens your credibility and prefer to “shame” them into accepting it is their “fault.” This does not help create a harmonious solution where both parties can make up. Instead, try to come up with a solution that helps you both.
8. Stop trying to “Win” at all costs – there is a saying that goes along the lines of: “If people are focused on winning the argument, the relationship loses.” The point of a relationship discussion is to reach a mutual understanding and come to an agreement or resolution that respects everyone’s needs.
9. Avoid character attacks – finally, just because your partner leaves his or her clothes lying around the bedroom does not mean that he or she is “inconsiderate” or “lazy.” Just because the other person wants to do something different to you it doesn’t mean they are being “awkward .” What ever you make think, take time to step back and give the other person some respect, after all it is their behaviour you have difficulty with.
Remember, good communication can really improve relationships, increasing intimacy, trust and support. This Christmas come together and make time for each other, even if things become a little fraught at times. Make friends, say sorry and celebrate openness and honesty.
Have a good Christmas,
Until next time, Steve.
Steve Clifford is a cognitive behavioural therapist who works alongside the team at Lushington Chiropractic, Eastbourne.
Philippe Dupasquier
11:42 21 Nov 24
I am in my sixties enjoying sports in general. I never had a back problem in my life until I recently experienced sciatica which gradually got worse.
I ended up being completely crippled not being able to walk without extreme pain. Even just standing up was a challenge.
It took about 6 weeks for James to sort me out. I can only praise his extreme professionalism and kindness. I am now back into running, feeling 100% and frankly from where I started, it feels like a miracle.Thank you again Lushington clinic.read more
Yvonne Powell
10:56 13 Nov 24
Emma is my heroine! As an active woman who loves training, there is nothing more frustrating than having an injury. However, Emma keeps 'repairing' me with her excellent detailed diagnosis and her thorough assessments. It's great to have someone who you can absolutely trust to provide you with the very best treatment!read more
Jan Smith
20:13 10 Nov 24
I won an assessment session with Lizzie who was so kind, thorough, honest and professional.
She identified several issues and admitted that at this moment in time I do not need further treatment but she gave me advise and suggested a couple of exercises that could potentialy stop the issues getting to the stage where I might need treatment in the future.
I really appreciated her help and advice and should I need help in the future Lushington Chiropractic would be my first port of call.
Thank you.read more
Shelley bowles
09:37 06 Nov 24
I have been attending Lushington chiropractors for about a year with back and neck issues. Miya is brilliant and my back has improved massively. She has so much knowledge and enthusiasm. I always leave feeling so much better. Shout out to the ladies on reception who are friendly and accommodating. The whole experience is lovely. Highly recommend.read more
joan white
09:51 22 Aug 24
I recently visited James for my back and neck pain. He conducted a thorough evaluation, asking me detailed questions about my symptoms and lifestyle. His comprehensive approach gave me confidence in his ability to provide effective treatment. He developed an extensive treatment plan that I was very pleased with.
I found the entire experience at James' practice to be professional and well-organized. From the friendly reception staff to the efficient appointment booking process, everything was handled smoothly. I'm optimistic about a full recovery with his guidance.read more
Andy Essex
19:05 10 Jul 24
Helped sorted out a very painful back, which was doing its best to ruin my week in Eastbourne. I had two thorough and (almost as important) educational consultations, which helped enormously. All staff were welcoming and helpful and I was very pleased with the all round service. Highly recommended.read more
Philip Ripley
11:08 08 Jul 24
A professionally run and very friendly chiropractor, situated in a convenient Town Centre location.
From not being able to walk “normally”…., after a few treatments and some advice regarding posture, particularly whilst sitting, I was very nearly back to absolute normal !
A big thank-you to James and all the team !
Whilst we all remain age 21 from the shoulders up, our advancing years determine changes and regular adjustments to our, once super supple, bodies…, as such…., this is a relationship I will continue for many years to come.read more
Julia Morse
14:15 30 Jun 24
Highly professional, skilled service from reception to treatment. Receptionists greet you with a smile and professional manner and the waiting room is comfortable, calm and informative.
Chiropractors are highly qualified and deal with clients in a professional though friendly manner. I knew I was in capable hands and had confidence in the advice and planned treatment programme.
Recommended!read more
Celia Smith
15:32 28 Jun 24
I was rather nervous about calling Lushington Chiropractic as I didn't know what to expect. From my first contact with the friendly receptionist, I have been extremely impressed with everything. A welcoming environment, a very professional attitude, and Luke has made me feel better, both mentally and physically. Thank you Lushington Clinic - I'm so glad I found you!read more
Suzie McNally
12:46 19 May 24
I have been attending Lushington Chiropractors for several months now. I first visited after personal recommendation. Initially it was for a ‘trapped nerve’ but over the months my back and posture has really improved and I can feel improvement in many other areas too. I cannot fault the team. The clinic has a lovely welcoming feel to it. The receptionists are all lovely. I have had treatments from Luke, Marie-Claude and Emma and they are all fantastic. Professional yet very friendly and totally approachable. I will continue to use the services Lushington offers and would fully recommend to everyone.read more
Mike Ling
15:27 24 Apr 24
An amazing team at Lushington Chiropractors, I couldn't recommend them enough to everyone. The service I've received from start to finish has been impeccable. The reception staff are very welcoming and friendly, they can't do enough for you and the Chiropractors listen and understand your needs. Their patient care is truly wonderful and everything is explained to you in simple terms to understand.
A big thank you for helping to get my body moving again!!read more
GALE HILL
18:13 10 Feb 21
I really didn't think is was possible to live without lower back pain until I decided to seek the help of James at Lushington Chiropractic. I can honestly say that the treatments I have received have been life changing. The atmosphere is warm and friendly and their professionalism is first class.read more
Tammi Clapson
17:07 09 Feb 21
Lushington Chiropractic was recommended to me by our previous Chiropractor after we moved area. James is very professional and put me at ease. The clinic is very Covid aware and I feel safe visiting. After just a few treatments I feel much better already and more mobile. Would recommend.read more
Travis Spruit
11:26 06 Feb 21
Lushington Chiropractors have been great, I rang them after injuring my back doing DIY and they saw me the same day. James was great explained everything, made me feel at ease and started treatment straight away. They have great corona virus safety measures in place and I felt at ease throughout. I have also seen both Gary and Louise while on my course of treatment and all have there own way of doing it but the results have been great and I highly recommend Lushington Chiropractor.read more
Lucy Reffell
20:04 28 Jan 21
Lushington Chiropractic is an amazing service. Exercise had been a big part of maintaining my mood and well-being and I lost this when I injured my hip. Dr Emma assessed my injury as well as other long-standing issues, and with treatment I am now back to exercising! I cannot thank them enough for enabling me to exercise again, and also giving me the knowledge to help strengthen my body, improve posture and prevent injury in the future. The service is friendly and professional and I would recommend it to everyone!read more
Susan Skinner
20:41 17 Jan 21
I've been attending the clinic for some time now and have a lot of praise for their professional approach.
Always made to feel comfortable which is very important. I've had some very thorough treatment from Karen including acupuncture which I've found to be extremely helpful. It really keeps me mobile and I'm able to do many activities that would otherwise prove to be difficult.I highly recommend giving them a try.
Huge thanks to Karen!read more
Marion Horton-Smith
11:19 11 Apr 20
I have been attending the clinic for 14 years, initially to treat a long term back problem and now for maintenance to ensure the problems don't re-occur. I see James for chiropractic treatment and Kim for massage., and have seen several other chiropractors there in the past. All are excellent, the staff are friendly and re-assuring and the treatment has kept me mobile and healthy, and any problems which have flared up have been treated quickly and resolved. Highly recommended.read more
Hayley C
17:22 02 Apr 20
So happy I went to Lushington Chiropractic. I’d lived with a lot of discomfort - back, neck and shoulders for almost 10 years. The consultation was so interesting and gave me great hope. I’ve since had multiple treatments, which have really helped ease my pain. My day to day life has improved and I’m no longer living according to my back aches! Thank you, I highly recommend.read more
Hayley Fairley
10:11 22 Mar 20
Started seeing James this week as I hurt my back and my only regret is that I didn't come here sooner . Very professional and thorough. Would definitely recommend. Thanks for staying open during this difficult time,see you tomorrow.read more
L McM
14:03 19 Mar 20
Quick appointment organised to assess a sudden lower back injury - James has been extremely professional and helpful, honing in on the current issue, the underlying causes, and ongoing approaches to relieve both with a treatment plan. My wife used the clinic regularly during a recent pregnancy and beyond and we would both recommend.read more
emma scammell
18:39 18 Mar 20
I made contact with Lushington Road following a recommendation. I have been suffering from acute lower back pain and needed help!
I received a phone call the same day from James who discussed my symptoms and made me an appointment for the following day.
As I arrived in the reception there was an elderly lady who obviously attends regularly, I was stuck by the sincere kindness all the staff showed her and the time they took to talk to her.
I spent an hour with James having an initial consultation, he was patient, thorough, understanding and even let me cry!
I was made to feel incredibly safe and relaxed as he carried out his examination.
James put a clear plan in place of what treatment I would need in the future and how he could help me.
No other health professional has ever taken so much time to fully understand my back pain.
I am going back tomorrow for another appointment and tonight I can honestly say I feel relieved knowing that someone can help me and that my back pain will get better.
Sorry for such a long post but it’s deserved!read more
stephanie crechriou
19:37 13 Jan 20
highly satisfied by the chiropractic treatments and acupuncture i received there. My practitioner, Karen, was a very good listener and an expert. in her fields. Her knowledge and professionalism are outstanding! I feel so much better now! Thank youread more
Lucie Parrish
21:21 20 Dec 19
Highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic. The team is very friendly and welcoming. I started my treatment with Garry to sort out my back and neck and am very pleased with all the treatment received and results so far.read more
Neil,Vanessa Gallini
11:27 09 Dec 19
All the team are extremely welcoming and informative. James has been excellent in easing my back and neck pain and getting me moving again, with realistic goals and treatments that work. I would highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic to anyone who is having mobility issues.read more
John Boddy
12:12 06 Dec 19
The team at Lushington Chiropractic are all extremely welcoming, I started going there for regular sessions a few years ago now, for back and neck problems, they were very thorough with their initial assessments and made me feel at ease straight away.
Over the last few years my back and neck pain are pretty much non-existent, I now no longer get headaches (which is a result of less pressure in my neck). I have also used their other services, every now and then, treating my self to a massage and have again got nothing but good things to say. I have seen pretty much every member of the team there and all have been extremely professional and provided an excellent service.
Thanks again guys you truly have made a difference.read more
Martin Gould
10:03 03 Dec 19
If you have been thinking about Chiropractic treatment but were unsure I would heartily recommend this clinic. Following a back spasm in 2015 I was unable to walk more than a few steps - after 3 treatments I was able to walk and drive again. The Chiropractors at Lushington are of a very high standard (I have used other clinics in the South East previously) and will provide a diagnosis of the cause of your problem and recommend a suitable course of treatment. I still use the services of Lushington on a monthly 'maintenance' basis, and have also received treatment there recently to treat a trapped nerve in my neck. My advice is to give them I try - I do not believe that you will be disappointed.read more
SNUB SNUB
22:28 25 Nov 19
Really nice team lovely clinic. Straightforward, hard-working no-nonsense team.
Known them for a long time.
Highly recommend them.
Thanks again.
Kelvin Jones
11:30 22 Nov 19
I have been going to Lushington for a few months to clear on-going back/neck issues and all the team are excellent. I see Karen & Ryan mainly who are first class and are highly professional. As are all the team, who are welcoming - special mention to Claire and Judy - who are always cheerful at the front desk!read more
Debbie Wills
20:24 21 Nov 19
I have received excellent treatment from Louise over the past six weeks. I took advantage of the family offer in October and received an amazing seven free sessions from Louise for neck and shoulder discomfort. I have previously tried physio, kinaeseology and massage but chiropractic treatment has definitely worked the best. I highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic!read more
Cheryl Maynard
12:16 21 Nov 19
I can without hesitation reccomend Lushington Chiropractic. I am currently having treatment for neck and back injuries. Chiropractic treatment with James and massages with Ben. Both are proving to be such a relief from the pain and discomfort along with proven healing. The service I have received is second to none. Lushington Chiropractic have the best practice ethos with not only effective results but also a welcoming, kind and above all caring attitude to their clients. We are indeed fortunate to have such a amazing facility with in Eastbourne.read more
Poppy Morgan
20:57 19 Nov 19
Have been coming to this clinic since I was young with a sports injury. Fantastic clinic and has helped me no end. Louise in particular is amazing. She has managed to sort out chronic pain in my ankles which even surgery couldn’t fix. This clinic has actually inspired me to take up a career in chiropractic!read more
Danielle Wilson
07:30 15 Nov 19
Very professional but friendly all at the same time. Have been coming for several years for chiropractic care. There is a real caring atmosphere. Now I also get remedial sports massage as well. Both treatments are making a huge difference to several long-standing aches and pains. Would wholeheartedly recommend them to anyone.read more
Eleanor Mogridge
17:05 14 Nov 19
I have used Lushington for both Chiropractic and sports massage therapy, and have been so pleased with both services. Each staff member has been lovely and I've been very confident of their knowledge. The flexibility of evening appointments works perfectly for me and I really am in better shape thanks to my time there which I rely on for work. Thank you team Lushington.read more
Janice Hughes
15:31 14 Nov 19
On behalf of my sister Lucy Webb: since visiting Dr. Mykel Mason for a pelvis, hip to knee situation, my pain levels have decreased considerably and my neck & shoulder situation greatly improved. My visits to the clinic only began during October but there have been rapid improvements by mid November. I would fully recommend to anyone who is in pain & incredibly worried, as I was, to contact the clinic for help. I have been treated with kindness, understanding & wonderful expertise by Dr Mason throughout my treatment. I would also like to thank the reception staff for their utmost kindness & consideration throughout. A perfect team!read more
Vicki Lowndes
12:40 12 Nov 19
Having been with a Chiropractor for 20 years it was very difficult when we moved to Eastbourne to move to a new Chiropractor. In fact I was still travelling back to my home town to see my trusted Chiropractor. Unfortunately he retired so I had no choice but to look for a new Chiropractor. I have now been going to Lushington Chiropractic for 6 weeks and can highly recommend the Chiropractic care from James and the Sports Massage from Ben. Give it a try, I did and don't regret it! I'm so glad I found them on Googleread more
Sabrina Wood
10:23 12 Nov 19
Fab place, had chiro & acupuncture with Gary and was a life changing experience. My shoulders felt better than it has in ages.
patricia baldwin
19:17 11 Nov 19
If you want chiropractic care this is the place to go, friendly staff great massage team and of course fantastic doctors.I can’t thank Dr mason enough.read more
Mark Ballard
17:50 11 Nov 19
I put my back out recently moving some furniture and took advantage of the friends and family option for a couple of free treatments.
Have been happy to come back as a paying customer as the treatment has helped. Really friendly team from reception to treatment. Nothing bad to say about the service at all.read more
Kathleen Lansdell
13:42 11 Nov 19
I have been with Lushingtons for nearly 2 years. Receiving excellent treatment from Mykel. Thank you. You can always get an appointment when needed. Judy and Claire are always cheerful and welcoming. Recommend Lushingtons.read more
mel mccleary
18:55 08 Nov 19
I`ve been getting treatment from Gary at Lushington this year and have seen a great improvement in my symptoms. All the staff at the clinic are so welcoming and it`s a very relaxed atmosphere. I wouldn`t hesitate in recommending it.read more
Gaby S
18:22 08 Nov 19
Always happy with lushington chiropractors, my other half has seen two different people here and has been treated professionally and with a friendly smile every time! Quick appointments when urgently needed and always happy with the treatments.read more
Richard Bulman
09:05 10 Oct 19
Very professional and friendly people from the moment you walk in. Treatment has been very helpful.
Tania Snashall
19:04 07 Oct 19
I first visited Lushington Chiropractic 14 years ago and they are my first port of call when I'm suffering with my back. Dr Revell is my go to but I've seen all the others there and they are all very friendly and knowledgeable. If you have any condition that Chiropractic treatment might help with, I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Dr Revell and his colleagues. The receptionist staff are so kind and friendly too, it's an all round pleasant environment to go to.read more
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18:34 30 Sep 19
Absolutely great service very relaxing atmosphere!! The Dr i see is James revell u can tell he is so passionate for what he does and wants what's best for you would definitely recommend to anyoneread more
Danny Hatcher
10:45 16 Sep 19
To preface this review I will mention that I have been going to Lushington for a number of years, therefore I might be slightly bias but it does give me plenty of experience to review.
I want to start of by saying that I have been to Lushington for 2 major injuries, my shoulder and my back/neck but, I have been going to Lushington for maintenance care for the years in between those incidents.
I am an active person, competing in trampoline and engaging in many other physical activities which means my body is put under a lot of forces.
My experience with Lushington has always been positive. The staff are friendly and engaging, asking how my day/week has been and how my training is going. The facility is clean and well maintained, including the treatment rooms.
For my shoulder, I had a surgery that was for stabilising the shoulder. I was at the NHS physio for 6 months with very little progression in my range of motion. I decided to try another option, Lushington Chiropractic. This was my first experience at the clinic. I managed to regain the majority of my range of motion in my shoulder back within 2 months of regular treatments. I then carried on with Lushington leading to almost full recovery of my shoulder like the surgery hadn't happened. I say almost because there is still some restricted range of motion there, but that is down to surgery I think.
For my back, this was quite a recent injury. During a training session on trampoline I gave myself whiplash. This was not only painful, as I am sure you can imagine, but extremely frustrating as I couldn't drive. I have been going to Lushington, as I did with my shoulder, for regular treatments and now almost 2 weeks after my whiplash I have full range of motion back in my neck, driving again and am looking to get back to training trampoline next week.
I feel like this wouldn't be a fair review if I didn't mention some of the things that could be seen as negative.
Obviously within in any physical health care profession, the practitioners are different and some of the individuals at the clinic are better than others. What Lushington do to combat this is that if you aren't happy with your practitioner then just change them.
There are on occasion due to the busy nature of the clinic some sessions that do run late, this doesn't affect anything other than time for parking, depending on where you park.
Which brings me onto another point. The parking around the clinic can be challenging but I am clutching at straws here as they can't just move site.
And finally the price. As it is a private practice the price isn't the easiest thing to get your head around, and as a masters student it is not nice seeing the money go from my account. Having said that, I would much rather have a healthy body for training than money in my account.
All in all, from my experience the staff and experience at Lushington is great and anyone that is looking to recover from an injury/ surgery or looking to prevent an injury should at least consider going for 1 check up.read more
Ruth Kingsbury
06:13 23 Jul 19
I have been coming here for years. Very attentive to your needs. Great team of professionals. Exceptional service.
Poppy Blue
13:16 29 May 19
Wanted to thank the team at Lushington for getting me back to work. I was recommended by my friend Jim who is currently under their care. I have received great results with having massage with Lizzie alongside chiropractic treatment with Karen. They have both worked wonders with me. I still have a little way to go but my back is already stronger and my pain has decreased considerably. I enjoy my visits as it is a lovely atmosphere and the reception staff are always there with a smile and make you feel very welcome. Highly recommended.read more
Phill Drew
06:28 10 May 19
Since seeing Michael my movement has become so much easier. Everyone is so friendly and supportive. I really can’t recommend Lushington Chiropractic highly enough.read more
Jean Whaley
10:11 28 Apr 19
Such a wonderful place to visit! Warm and welcoming staff and top class professional treatment. I have no hesitation in recommending it to anyone. After one visit you feel that you are part of a special family and that is unique,read more
Richard Leech
12:56 30 Mar 19
Excellent chiropractic clinic. Friendly staff and great service. I don't feel like I'm being cynically sucked into an endless treatment cycle like some other less places do.read more
Bianca Stephens
06:46 27 Mar 19
Brilliant service from this practice.
The entire staff team are remarkably friendly, offering a very professional service. The practice is clean, welcoming and airy.
They offer a ‘back care’ talk session which was useful, and they have printed and visual material educating on every day activities to aid recovery and continued health/posture awareness.
Caring approach and even given homework to aid recovery and beyond. It’s those little nudges you need sometimes, but very effective.
Highly recommend.read more
Judy Russell
11:27 20 Mar 19
I have such confidence in the treatment I am being given.The team without exception have all tried helping me, and hopefully will be successful. I definitely have great faith in them and they appear to all be working for the good of the patients. I would have no hesitation in recommending this practice to anybody .read more
Katharine Drew
18:28 23 Feb 19
I had my first treatment yesterday at Lushington Chiropractic and will be wholeheartedly recommending them to everyone!
I’d never tried chiropractic treatment before and didn’t know what to expect, but from the moment I walked in the door the whole experience was caring, friendly and welcoming. My appointment was with Karen, and she put me at ease straight away. She explained everything in a clear, easy-to-understand way, answered all my questions and went through my treatment plan so that I was fully informed and happy with everything.
After just one treatment I’m already feeling better, and have been able to do so much more activity today with my children.
Thank you so much!read more
Philip Harris
21:25 16 Feb 19
Great team very friendly and professional offering excellent care. Attending for chiropractic and massage therapy currently, all good. Free back class was helpful in pointing out some obvious mistakes we all make in our day to day life.read more
David Barr
21:35 12 Feb 19
Have received excellent treatment from Gemma Couch. Back pain has reduced considerably and continues to improve. Recommended to a friend who is equally happy. Highly recommended.read more
Luke Whelan
14:53 04 Feb 19
Brilliant service very professional! First session today and already feel a great improvement. Louise is the lady that I have there and she is fantastic very professional and a lovely person makes you feel very comfortable. The staff there are amazing and very welcoming. Thank you so much.read more
Brenda Tompkins
10:14 31 Dec 18
My husband needed help with nerve pain relating to his back so we decided to try chiropractic treatment at this clinic.
Dr Revell asked many questions in order to get a clear picture of John's health, lifestyle and medical history.
He made us both feel at ease straightaway with his friendly yet professional manner.
We are confident that the treatment he is having is the best possible.
Finally, the premises has a parking area, which is convenient and the clinic staff all display the same level of friendly professionalism.
I am happy to recommend Lushington Chiropractic Clinic unreservedly.read more
Kali Filsell
17:14 28 Dec 18
Been going to Lushington chiropractic for a few years now and I recommend it highly.
It’s a very clean, homely and welcoming clinic.
My 11 year old daughter has been receiving treatment for the last few months and she feels really comfortable having her adjustments.
Chiropractic treatment by James and Gemma has definitely helped us with our problems.read more
Stuart Turner
16:24 28 Nov 18
I am writing this review on behalf of my mother Margaret Andrews who has been attending your clinic for a while. She always enjoys her visits to the clinic where the reception team are very friendly and caring. Her chiropractor Gemma is very caring too and is very conscientious and keen to alleviate her hip pain which has definitely improved together with her mobility under her care which is much appreciated.read more
Sylvia Markwick
19:13 07 Nov 18
I highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic. The whole team are so warm and friendly. The advice and treatment I have been receiving has greatly improved my fitness and well being.read more
Alison Hignett
15:17 06 Nov 18
Warm, friendly welcome every time. I'm very early in my course of treatment but, after years of neglect, I can already feel a huge improvement thanks to Vicky and the team. Would highly recommend (and already have) to friends and family.read more
Debbie Ridgway
11:14 06 Nov 18
Gemma makes me feel very relaxed during treatment and helps me to understand what and why she is doing things. Has helped me so much. The receptionists are helpful and friendly too.read more
Tabitha Russell
11:31 16 Oct 18
I've been going to lushington chiropractic for about 4 years now. I've seen the chiropractic team and the massage team. Both are great. I've already recommended family and friends who have had the same great results as I have.read more
Stephen Carroll
09:36 14 Oct 18
These guys are fantastic. I was offered 1st class treatment under the Hands4heroes charity and I’m so grateful for the help. James and the team made me welcome and took care of my additional needs.
I feel so much better and my sleep has improved lots. Please give these guys a shout and pass it on!!!!!!read more
Matt Kuchta
08:55 12 Oct 18
Would highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic and the whole team here. From the warm welcome and helpfulness of the reception team to the knowledge and skill of the chiropractors. They really know how to get the best results and tailor treatments so specifically to individual needs.read more
Tanya Hooper
12:39 09 Oct 18
I would highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic. They make you feel very cared for and safe with the thorough history and initial consultation.
Friendly staff, convenient appointment times and free talks to help your recovery.read more
Nic Williams
10:10 02 Oct 18
I am so impressed with the treatment I received for a slipped disc over the last few months following surgery. I arrived unable to touch my toes, sit comfortably or do any exercise and I am now back to 100%. I cannot thank Gemma and the practice enough and would not hesitate in recommending them.read more
Carl Titherly
08:29 29 Sep 18
The staff are very welcoming on arrival and Dr v white explains everything that she is doing and understands if things aren't working for me. Lizzy is very good at her massage and new exercises that help with my recovery. Recommend to everyone.read more
Shanon Attwood
15:26 25 Sep 18
I have been visiting James since March 2018 and the results have been incredible. Very professional service and friendly staff. Would recommend to anyone!read more
Clare Titherly
16:42 24 Sep 18
I have had a reduced motion in my shoulder for quite a few years. When I noticed I was missing out on joining in some activities with my young son I decided to something about it. I am so glad I did and annoyed at myself that I took so long. The combination of chiropractic and sports massage was just what I needed. Would highly recommend.read more
Bernard Barnaville
13:20 08 Sep 18
I can't rate Lushington Chiropractic highly enough. I have been suffering from Sciatica which had numbed my left leg and although the numbness hasn't gone completely my body is so much better shape and feels great thanks to Dr. Gemma. She really explains all the treatment that I'm having and gives great advice on how to maintain myself. Will be having a few more visits soon.read more
Martin Link
08:23 07 Sep 18
Fabulous people, fabulous results. They're easy to get to by car, bus or train. I cannot recommend them highly enough.
Linda Hunt
06:22 19 Jun 18
I highly recommend these lovely people. So friendly and helpful. Work wonders with my back. Thank you James and team
S J
18:24 05 Jun 18
After suffering from sciatica sporadically over 40 years l thought it was time to try a different solution. What a difference this has made to my life. The staff are friendly & very professional. If like me you suffer from back pain l cannot recommend Lushington Chriopractic highly enough.
After an incident involving a rather unfortunate manoeuvre stepping over my dog l managed to put my back out & trap a nerve. This made my entire right leg extremely painful. Team Lushington have been fantastic! It's been a bit of a haul but again l'm now pain free & able to lead a normal life. Many thanks to James, Stuart, & Dara for their care & treatment.read more
Robert Dewberry
19:14 12 May 18
Arrived for an appointment in pain and virtual unable to walk due to a severe arthritic knee. After intense treatment and massage I am mobile and virtually pain free, just waiting to see an Orthopaedic Surgeon.
I would highly recommend this practice not only for their professionalism, friendliness and knowledge. Every member of staff treats you with empathy and an interest in your specific case. Congratulations James on a very dedicated team.read more
Emily Coombes
12:07 25 Apr 18
I’ve always had a great experience at Lushington. I’ve had a few different chiropractors and they’re great giving lots of helpful advice as well as wonderful treatment. But the shining star is Theresa at reception, she always gives you such a warm welcome and is so helpful and caring. Definitely the place to go!read more
Tony Haines
08:55 05 Apr 18
In the New Year I was suffering from a slipped disc and deterioration of my lower back. As a result of this a friend of mine suggested I contacted James from Lushington Chiropractic, which I did.
I am still having treatment with James but I am feeling so much better. There is no more pain relating to my slipped disc and as a result of his treatments and exercises at home I’m able to move around pain free.
Following my, very thorough, first consultation James identified that I had problems from a neck injury from several years back. I’d been having headaches for years and had put it down to stress of life etc. Since James and Kim, who gives an excellent deep massage, have been giving me treatments for this my headaches have subsided.
Additionally to this review I’d like to say thank you to Claire, on reception who does an excellent job and makes you feel very welcome.
Thank you to all at Lushington Chiropractic.read more
Antony Hunt
18:30 27 Mar 18
Due to work activities I really struggled with pain in my lower back and had always been in fear of seeing a Chiropractor. However I was put at ease mentally and physically by Dr Victoria White. After an intense treatment program my back pain had gone and mobility had also improved. now I see Dr Victoria White once a month for maintenance and I am Pain free. I cannot rate Dr Victoria White high enough an excellent service.
All the team at Lushinton Chiropractic are really friendly especially front of house.read more
Michelle Gurr
20:43 07 Mar 18
I have been going to Lushington chiropractic since Nov 2017, Victoria has well and truly sorted me out. My back was a mess due to my line of work but within a few sessions a she had me walking easier and in a lot less pain. I have kept up my treatment to maintain my new found freedom. I have also started seeing Ryan for a massage. His hands are magic! He found my problem areas without me saying anything and was the best massage I have ever had. All in all these guys are magicians and I wouldn’t go anywhere else!read more
Trevor Young
15:14 07 Mar 18
I have been going to see James for some time now for neck and shoulder problems that I had endured for many years. I am so glad I found the clinic at Lushington. What an amazing team they all are. From the warm, friendly and welcoming reception staff especially Claire to the excellent treatment from the knowledgeable and professional Chiropractor and massage therapy team. I would highly recommend Lushington Chiropractic to anyone.read more
Susan Taylor
16:16 06 Mar 18
Lushington Chiropractic is a friendly, efficient and well run service. On-going treatment plans are agreed following thorough initial assessments and are reviewed regularly. I have benefitted greatly from both chiropractic treatment and sports massage and have no hesitation in recommending them highly.read more
Joy Knight
13:27 05 Mar 18
I have been in pain with my neck and lower back for years. After three weeks I am feeling so much better. Thank you James and the other staff who are always friendly and welcomingread more
Lois Pelecanos
02:18 20 Feb 18
I thought I'd try Lushington as I have a chronic muscular stenosis as well as lumbar arthritis. I had a series of sessions with Joshua French who helped to ease my aches and pains and lower back problems. I've followed that up with a monthly massage from Ryan Keats who takes great care in analysing my specific weaknesses to achieve the best outcome. I am very pleased with the treatment received and know that I can increase or decrease the sessions as it suits me. I particularly like the fact that all treatment is explained carefully and patient notes are kept to assess progress.read more
Francesca Wood
12:50 17 Feb 18
I was recommended Lushngton by my GP as I had been suffering from a bad back and pain in my leg. I can't thank them enough for their help. Regular chiropractic with massage has helped me immensely. I am no longer on painkillers and can enjoy walking again. The chiropractor, massage therapist and reception staff were wonderful. Made me feel very at ease and enjoyed my visits to them. Thankyou and have recommended to freinds.read more
Samuel Finnis
11:50 16 Feb 18
I came to Lushington Chiropractic following issues with my back, neck and knee which I had been enduring for a number of years. I have recently been receiving treatment from James and have seen continued progress with my adjustments with no (prior to treatment common strains/pains) recurring. The staff are always very welcoming and professional and I have felt very comfortable there. I have no hesitation in recommending Lushington Chiropractor to my friends and family or to anyone needing treatment.read more
Daphne Rodemark
16:50 15 Feb 18
I have been having treatments with Gemma for several weeks and can not thank her enough for her help. Today I took my five year old for a health check and Gemma was fantastic with him too. Communication is always fantastic, always greeted with a smile and always made to feel comfortable - Highly recommendedread more
Eddie Pitwell
13:48 21 Jan 18
After 18 years of back issues due to an injury while at work i decided to get it sorted.
The staff here are very knowledgeable and have explained everything during treatment.
I have been having treatment for 2 months now and have seen vast inprovement in my back to the point where i can say it doenst give me any pain during my day.
Treatment is expensive but very much worth it.read more
Chris Watling
21:55 15 Jan 18
I’m a plasterer I have had an on going back pain didn’t think much of it till just before Christmas when it became unbearable but since coming to Lushington chiropractic it has got so much better and they have helped me where I have been going wrong with looking after my back. Thank you.read more
Rebecca Jade
14:55 10 Jan 18
I went to Lushington Chiropractic following an ongoing issue with my back that became completely unbearable very suddenly. I have been seeing Dr Victoria for 6 weeks now and have seen incredible progress. The entire staff are very welcoming and professional and I feel very comfortable there. I would highly recommend to anyone needing chiropractic care!read more
Katy Wise
11:55 04 Jan 18
Highly recommend to anyone needing treatment. Friendly and welcoming reception staff, with very comfortable waiting room. Professional care provided with very successful and effective results. The free evening classes are also super interesting and helpful. I wouldn't go anywhere else to see a Chiropractor and I was quick to notice improvement in my QOL. I also appreciated the time taken to help me understand the cause of my problems and what treatment would help and how. Top class service, 5 stars!read more
Beverley Midgley
10:30 10 Dec 17
I started to see Gemma a couple of months ago with a very debilitating sciatic pain down my left leg, thigh and buttock.The pain increased when I was sitting, and was worse when I was driving or sitting for long periods of time.
I had been in pain for nearly a year. I felt very desperate as no one seemed to be able to help me. The pain was affecting my life in a negative way.
Gemma was very understanding and when she said that she could help me, I was so happy I had come to the right place at last.
Over a numbers of weeks I saw a steady improvement in my pain levels.Gemma was so helpful and showed a huge amount of empathy.At last I had hope that things might actually start to improve.
Gemma made adjustments to my spine and manipulated muscles that weren’t working properly. Slowly I made improvements, driving and sitting watching TV didn’t cause as much pain as before.
Thank you Gemma, I can’t thank you enough and I would have no hesitation in recommending Lushington Chiropractor to my friends and family.read more
Wade Matthews
10:22 09 Dec 17
Brilliant service by Dr Joshua French at lushington chiropractic, was in excruciating pain and barely able to walk, josh was very professional and incredibly knowledgeable in his field of expertise. After a couple of sessions I was already walking better and standing up straight was much easier. I had a total of 8 treatments and felt like a new man. All the staff were very supportive and I’ve had regular phone calls to make sure I’m ok, couldn’t recommend these guys enough, they all go above and beyond to get you back on the straight and narrow. Thanksread more
mag cf
09:12 29 Nov 17
I have visited the practice following an excruciating nerve pain down my left arm. The environment is relaxed and I felt at ease with everyone immediately, from the receptionists to the practitioners. Mykel examined me, spotted the problem and within a few sessions with him I had my sleep back. I am now recovering with Gemma and getting better and better. Thanks to Victoria as well for her help. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend Lushington Chiropractic thanks to the knowledgeable people and the friendly atmosphere.
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John Steele
10:31 09 Sep 17
I have been receiving treatment from Josh since he started a couple of months or so ago. He has helped me tremendously in reducing the amount of pain in my knee by making adjustments to my ankle (never had that before), working on my hip and working on areas surrounding the knee. Within the first 2-3 sessions with him the severe pain I had for a year and a half prior was reduced by around 80% and I can now load my knee a lot better and continue to progress. He has also really helped my shoulder by making adjustments to my neck and spine which has allowed me to exercise more and recover better from my workout's after having 4 shoulder surgeries. I would highly recommend him for both sports people and also to people just looking to get their bodies moving in the correct way and reducing unnecessary stress on the joints. He's a great guy aswell so you will really get on with him, he will really look after you and has great knowledge too. I have also seen other chiropractors at the clinic and masseuse's and they have also been great. Thank you Josh and to all the staff at lushington including the reception staff who are great. Johnread more
Michelle Clayton
22:07 02 Sep 17
I've been attending for various treatments for sciatica mainly and muscle tension. Always welcoming and kind. Ive been seeing Dr Mykel Mason, Olly, and Louise. I can highly recommend all practitioners in their expertises. Genuine concerns for their clients and practical exercise handouts in between treatments. Good free informative talks about general maintenance and care of body Good central location.read more
Ken Ellis
08:18 25 Aug 17
Dr Mykel Mason has been looking after me at this clinic for a year and a half and he is working wonders on a knee problem that has troubled me for some time. He is an absolute professional in his approach to patient care and treatment and I would thoroughly recommend him. The whole team at Lushington Chiropractic are welcoming and a pleasure to see, thank you so much guys!read more
Stephen Cranmer
13:19 11 Aug 17
Well worth my visits but I should have gone a year earlier! I am having both chiropractic and massage treatments from practitioners who are very thorough and knowledgeable and have helped me understand my problems as well as treating them. All the staff are friendly and the atmosphere is relaxed.read more
Merran Waters
20:44 15 Jun 17
The reception staff are very welcoming. I've been treated by Dr Mykel Mason he is very knowledgeable and so far he's had an answer for all my ailments. He has explained everything step by step which makes you feel relaxed about the treatment to follow. I highly recommend Lushington Chiropractors and Dr Mason - a top class service!read more
Neil Brooks
03:26 15 Mar 17
I have been going to Lushington Chiropractic for a number of years now and I am very impressed with the whole experience.
The first thing you notice is just how pleasant the place is, it is always spotlessly clean, well looked after and a rather calming environment.
The clinic staff are wonderful, they always have a smile and a cheer for you, and everyone I have met at the clinic makes you feel welcomed from the moment you walk in the door, which I really do like and value.
Dr Revell, as are all the staff, is very attentive to your concerns and makes you feel at ease and takes the time to explain to you any proposed treatments, and I never feel like talking to him is too much trouble or a problem.
I always feel better after visiting and would thoroughly recommend the clinic to anyone looking for a high-quality service and practice with a patient focused approach.read more
tom ryan
14:06 14 Feb 17
I have the highest of praise for Lushington Chiropractic. I first attended last Autumn in some discomfort, minimal flexibility and with ever growing pain in my neck, shoulder, arms and fingers. I was assigned to Vicky who I cannot express just how much she has helped me and I am now without pain, standing straighter then I have in years and now I feel I am able to take on more.
I was deeply impressed by how thorough Vicky was in going through my medical history and she was able to say that she would be able to help me. She was certainly true to her word. I now look forward to the treatments as Vicky's professional attitude and very warm personality ensures I am always relaxed. I cannot recommend Vicky enough and I can say the same for the other chiropractors who have seen me when Vicky was fully booked. At these times it was very clear that my treatment plan had been shared and I so appreciated this consistency in approach.
If you are struggling in some way with back pain or something similar, book yourself a consultation and see what it can do for you.read more